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Self-Assessment Tools & Resources

The following are some resources you may find helpful...                                  

  Attachment style: http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl                   
Authentic happiness: https://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.edu/testcenter ​                       
Personality type: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp ​      
Temperament: http://www.keirsey.com/sorter/register.aspx
Marriage strength: https://www.gottman.com/how-well-do-you-know-your-partner/
Relationship happiness: http://www.gottmancouplesretreats.com/about/relationship-quiz-test.aspx
Bids for connection: https://www.gottman.com/blog/self-care-friendship-and-dr-gottmans-guide-to-recognizing-bids/
Parenting (Popkin): http://www.activeparenting.com/Parents-Parenting_Style_Quiz
Sexual Addiction Screening Test:  http://www.recoveryzone.com/tests/sex-addiction/SAST/index.php

Divorce Care:  https://www.divorcecare.org/
Faithful and True: https://www.faithfulandtrue.com/   
New Way Ministries: http://www.newwayministries.org/
 
Books on Sex Abuse Recovery:
Courage To Heal (Ellen Haas)
The Wounded Heart (Dan Allander)
Counseling Survivors of Sex Abuse (Diane Langberg)
On the Threshold of Hope (Diane Langberg)

Books on Sex Addiction Recovery:
Facing the Shadows (Patrick Carnes)
Don't Call It Love (Patrick Carnes)
Shattered Vows / L.I.F.E. workbook for spouses of sex addiction (Debra Laaser)
Seven Desires of Every Heart (Mark and Debra Laaser)

Books on Codependency:
Boundaries (Cloud & Townsend)
Love Addiction (Pia Mellody)
Facing Codependence / Breaking Free workbook (Pia Mellody)
Silently Seduced: When the parents make their children partners (Kenneth Adams)
Emotional Incest Syndrome (Patricia Love)
The Betrayal Bond (Patrick Carnes)

Books on Marriage: 
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (John Gottman)
Getting the Love You Want (Harville Hendrix)

Books on Self-Improvement / Self-Worth:

The Gifts of Imperfection (Brené Brown)
The Pressure's Off (Larry Crabb)
The Universe Has Your Back (Gabrielle Bernstein)
Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry & Controlling Men (Lundy Bancroft)
The Dance of Anger (Harriet Lerner)
The Power of Vulnerability (Brené Brown)
How People Grow (Cloud & Townsend)
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